Forbidden Fruit...

Anonymous writes:
I am 29 years old. I would like to think that I am attractive, out going, and educated
My problem is with men. Shocking! I have a HUGE problem of falling in love with guys who already have girlfriends or married men. I have never followed through with any of them, but have wanted to on a number of occasions.
My question is, what is my problem? Why do I keep falling in love with forbidden fruit? Am I just looking in the wrong places?

Flat out-you are wasting your time.

Falling for a guy whose penis has a another home is super shitty. Give yourself a shake sister. Been there done that. I'd like throw up all over my computer right now because I know what this feels like. Put the goods on lockdown because you should not act on any of it. In fact, go a little amazon for a while and stop shaving if you feel it will help you to resist the forbidden fruit.

If you keep falling for unavailable men, as painstaking as it may be, that's probably the way you consciously/unconsciously like it. 5 things could be happening with you:

1) You may like drama and panic attacks-because that's all it leads to;
2) You may also like the idea of unavailable men because you know that you still have your independence;
3) You may have a fear of being in a relationship and getting hurt so the unavailable guy is way easier because the chances are super slim that anything will come of it;
4) Something has happened in your past to make you not trust a man enough to get into your own healthy relationship-liking unavailable men are convenient for your lifestyle
5) You may be delusional and actually think that he's gonna leave her for you

If you keep this up, I promise you will find yourself with a one-way ticket to Lunaticville where you'll be appointed mayor.

My apologies if this was harsh, I am sure you're an awesome girl but share your vagina  awesomeness with someone who wants it.

Reccomended reading: He's Just Not That Into You
Reccomended movie: He's Just Not That Into You

Good luck,
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